for example... It's like telling someone you are ticklish, so they in turn tickle torture you. It's called asking for it. It's the things you think to yourself "that is my worst fear, that THAT would happen", and so it happens. I don't know how it goes for anybody else, but I have noticed that for me, some things that I think up in my head in fear I create for myself somehow, and they happen to me. Not all things, come on. But some. I don't want to share. I just want to share.